jrockwell1222 Posted January 22, 2005 Report Posted January 22, 2005 this isn't your normal girl trouble. here's the deal. i had made plans for a date. i had everything set up. we were suppost to go to my friends house and watch movies. all she had to do was ask her parents. they told her no. they said something about the standards and somethign how we shouldn't be steady dating. then they said they might make her go on at least 2 dates with other guys before she can go on one with me again. i mean. come on. we live in a small ward. i'm the i'm the only ym there over 16. who else is there. i can in a way understand her parents. they are people i really respect. but sometimes they seem to take things too far or inforce when it only makes things worse. i'm looking to see what you people thing about this whole thing. thank you Quote
Guest &lusername> Posted January 22, 2005 Report Posted January 22, 2005 well, she can date non-members. your not gunna make a total commentment as a teenager, though it may seem so, but if there are non-members with high standerds, no reason why she souldn't date other guys. Quote
Franken Posted January 23, 2005 Report Posted January 23, 2005 I can't honestly say there's not much in high school relationships besides heartbreak. Thing is, they hardly ever work because, they're not supposed to work. Before I say much else, what do you mean by steady dating? Like do you and her single date, or are you in a relationship or do you just mainly date her? Quote
jrockwell1222 Posted January 24, 2005 Author Report Posted January 24, 2005 not dating alone. we always go with a group of kids. i think thats the reason they wouldn't let it happen. i think they misunderstood what was asked and thought we were going to be alone. the guys around here are pervs. she can go a date other people if she wants. it worked out though. i got invited to her house that night anyway and stayed the night (there was a really bad snow storm, so they just had me stay there). everything will work out i'm sure. as for who said highschool relationships aren't meant to work. thats not true. every relationship has a chance. don't get me wrong. i don't go around saying i'm going to marry this girl. we are dating. a big desicion can't really be made till i get back from my mission. thanks for your input. sorry this thing posted 4 times. each time i put it up for post it said error so i just kept trying to send it. Quote
Franken Posted January 24, 2005 Report Posted January 24, 2005 Oh, well yeah I don't see a problem with group dating. In general also, I'm not saying all turn out like that, but far too many high school relationships turn out in heartbreak. As sure as you can possibly be at times, everything can change. Right you are about deciding after your mission. Quote
jrockwell1222 Posted January 24, 2005 Author Report Posted January 24, 2005 hey franken do you have aim, yahoo, or ,msn messanger? Quote
Franken Posted January 24, 2005 Report Posted January 24, 2005 Yeah, I've got MSN, my sn is at [email protected] Quote
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