Need advise on being a leader and an example

[JohnPAB]

I'm the Teacher's Quorum president in my branch, I currently have 2 baptized young men at my responsibility. One of them particulary, is one of my best friends, but he's a bit inactive at the moment. He seems to be uninterested in the church, I know he has a testimony, but it seems like he doesn't care as much anymore, he misses sunday meetings and activites a lot.

I try to be an example for him as best as I can, I even managed to start keeping the sunday, something I used to struggle with, and when he asks me to play some video game or something of the sort with him I tell him I can't because it's Sunday. It seems to make no difference.

I'm currently alone in the Quorum presidency, should I call him as a counselor? Could the notion of responsibilites make him more interested in the Church?

I don't know what I can do to help him, please advise.

[skippy740]

First, it's a great sign of maturity to be asking these questions and to have such concern for your brother in the quorum. I commend you.

Second, I know it's a small thing... but it's not because it's "Sunday", but because it's the Sabbath. Sunday is just a day of the week, while the Sabbath is the proper term you are wanting to convey.

I cannot tell you to call anyone to be your counselor. Could it inspire additional activity? It could. But that decision is up to you and the Lord. You are one of only 4 people in your ward/branch that have Priesthood keys that entitle you to inspiration and revelation: Deacon's Quorum President, Teacher's Quorum President, Elder's Quorum President and Bishop/Branch President.

When was the last time you invited him out to Church or to an activity? He likes inviting you to play video games, so extend the invitation for Church activities. Even if it's just for 1 hour on Sunday, getting him in the building is a good step.

What if you asked him to come with you to visit the other young man in your stewardship? Yes, that would be part of the duties as a counselor, but no reason why he can't do it now, is there?

There may be other issues at play that you don't yet know about. You may want to take him aside - away from his house - and just talk. Ask him how things are going, at home and at school. Maybe he can open up to you about other pressures he is feeling (without discussing worthiness as that's for the Bishop). Maybe he's seen some 'anti' literature and it's shaken him up a bit? We don't know, and you won't know until you care about him FIRST.

If he has an active home teacher for his family, you may want to ask him about the family and how you may be able to help.

Just a few ideas to consider.