First, I apologize in advance if anything I post here comes off as the least bit light-minded. That said, I can't seem to shake this image of your Bishop, sitting there giving you The Goldfish Look and saying "You're worried about that?". You'd be surprised how many people get all wrapped around the axle about "lesser" sins that they thought were The Worst Thing Ever. Second, you don't know what sins others are guilty of. Don't try to "rack and stack 'em" and beat yourself up in the process. Third, you'd be amazed at how many women -- in the Church! -- are guilty of very serious transgressions. Fourth, men are not really more aggressive. Passive aggression is also a form of aggression. Lastly, there is a terrible double standard within the Church in these matters. Men do tend to be judged far more harshly, many times for things that a female instigated passive-aggressively. Keep on keeping on.
