Just_A_Guy

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  1. I know it's horrible to think about money at a time like this, but if you're not careful you may wind up suffering financially as well as emotionally. See a family lawyer. There are steps you can take now to protect yourself in case things don't improve between you and your wife. I'm not talking about trying to take advantage of her; I'm just talking about making sure that you don't get taken advantage of.

  2. Not yet...:mad:

    Not wanting to get too specific, Hemidakota, but are you basing that answer on the temple ceremony? Or on something else?

    DYC 128:20 refers in passing to a confrontation between Michael and Satan in the middle of a chronological list of events that have all taken place:

    --Moroni's visits at Cumorah

    --The revelation to the 3 witnesses

    --The confrontation between Michael and Satan on the banks of the Susquehanna River

    --The restoration of the Melchizedek Priesthood

    (and going on to v. 21)

    --The formation of the Church at the Whitmer home

    --Sundry revelations from various heavenly beings, probably including the events surrounding the dedication of the Kirtland Temple

    Why would an event that hasn't happened yet (and may not happen for centuries) be listed among five other events which all took place within a period of fifteen years?

    If you base your position on your interpretation of the temple ceremony, I certainly have no desire to dissect that. But if there are other sources that have led you to this conclusion, I'd be interested to learn more about them.

  3. Do you remember the time frame? I may had spoken to him. ^_^

    It would have been in the last six months or so, but I dont' remember the precise dates.

    By the way, I think it really has had a wonderful impact on him, and I think he'll be a better missionary for his service in the Marines.

    I just wish he'd known at the outset what kind of timeframe he was looking at.

  4. There is no semantics here and want to make it explicitly clear. Living expenses relate to travel and food allowance, utilities and incidentals (cab fare, parking, tips,, etc). That is NOT salary. The GA are called to labor far away from their homes on Church business, and like any other administrative expense they are reimbursed or provided a stipend to cover these expenses. As detailed before, these expenditure funds come from Church related businesses and NOT tithing or donations. Whatever point you are trying to make you are sorely mistaken if you are trying to equate the above with "compensation."

    Yes, the GAs are not Jim Bakker.

    But, no, they are not part of the Church's "unpaid ministry". And, with all due respect, you're going above and beyond anything the Church has explained when you try to narrowly define "living expenses".

    In the 1985 Conference, President Hinckely explained,

    I should like to add, parenthetically for your information, that the living allowances given the General Authorities, which are very modest in comparison with executive compensation in industry and the professions, come from this business income and not from the tithing of the people

    To my knowledge, no additional clarification has been given. Indeed, your strict definition would seem to exclude providing an additional residence to a General Authority who was already a Salt Lake resident prior to his call (as President Hinckley was). Yet, we know that this was the case. (A strict definition of "living allowance" also contradicts the anecdotal data that we have, which admittedly is of dubious origin as it tends to show up primarily on anti-Mormon sites.)

    Moreover, as I implied earlier, there's no doctrinal need to impose such a narrow definition because the D&C explicitly permits church leaders to support their families out of Church funds. I would venture to say that at its root, our aversion to a paid ministry is not primarily doctrinal; it is merely a byproduct of our innate cultural antipathy to the mainstream Christian ministry (present company excepted, Prisonchaplain! :D).

  5. Let us measure to what is written in scripture. I would never ask anyone to take my word for it. If you interpret those words (BoM condemning being paid to teach the Gospel) differently please let me know.

    I concur that it's potentially problematic whenever you have people whose material support depends on their ministry.

    On the other hand, I think you need to read the BoM in light of the D&C passage I quoted above. At least in certain circumstances, the Lord has permitted ecclesiastical leaders to support their families out of Church funds. The Church has done so in the past, even at the local level (it's a matter of historical record--see the extracts of Quinn that I linked to earlier). The Encyclopedia of Mormonism acknowledges the continuance of this practice with regard to the Apostles; as did President Hinckley (though both sources stress that the funds are drawn from the Church's business investments).

    If you want to engage in semantics games about "well, define 'payment'" or "well, what are they being paid to do?", feel free. But the bottom line is that the Apostles receive money from the Church that they would not otherwise receive if they were not Apostles. To the vast majority of speakers of the english language, that constitutes a paid ministry.

  6. Hemi and Great Daines, a family member of mine went into the Marine Reserve after his recruiter swore up and down that he could serve a mission immediately after getting out of boot camp.

    He's going to Afghanistan in June.

    You're right that I have no idea what the Marine Corps' internal procedures are. All I know is, what he was promised would happen, isn't happening.

  7. I served my mission in a country with compulsory missionary service. The native missionaries (and the Americans who had done military service) were almost uniformly excellent missionaries.

    That said, bear in mind this simple truth:

    Recruiters lie.

    Maybe you'll get to submit your mission papers as soon as you come out of boot camp. Or maybe they'll put you on the first plane to Afghanistan. My understanding (based wholly on hearsay) is that the recruiter doesn't know, and more than likely doesn't care.

    Just keep that in mind.

  8. . . . and please provide a reference where it states there was an income payed to Bishops.....

    D&C 42:71: And the elders or high priests who are appointed to assist the bishop as counselors in all things, are to have their families supported out of the property which is consecrated to the bishop, for the good of the poor, and for other purposes, as before mentioned;

    See also the CES Institute study manual commentary on this verse, quoting Smith and Sjodahl:

    The law of remuneration is that those who administer in spiritual affairs must have their stewardships and labor for their living, ‘even as the members.’ This is wisdom. For in that position they are absolutely independent and can preach the truth without fear. Those who administer in temporal affairs and give their entire time to public business are to have a just remuneration. If they were to earn a living for themselves, they could not give all their time and energy to the community.

    The point being here that the Church does not use collected tithes to pay anyone for the time they spend serving in the Church.

    And my point, Justice, is that that just isn't true. The Twelve get paid by the Church, and "lower" members of the LDS ministry have been in the past. It may not be very much, and you can play semantics games denoting it "living expenses" rather than "salary", but they get (or got, in the case of Bishops) paid.

  9. Lyle, just to clarify: I am active LDS, and I daresay I'm as familiar with the church's financial procedures as most members; generally speaking I am very comfortable with them. I was responding to a claim about the evils of a paid ministry by pointing out that "The LDS Church also pays its senior leadership". Which is true.

    I was not suggesting that funds are mismanaged. I was not suggesting that church leaders are growing rich off the labors of the membership. I was just trying to counteract the implication (all-too-common within Mormonism) that the bulk of Protestant ministers are only in it for the money.

    I would also note that the following extract from your post just isn't true:

    bi annually funds and spending is reported at conferences which every member is expected to attend. they are then published in the following monthly publication the ensign.

    Listen closely at the next Conference. What they're really saying is that the Church has audited itself (or that it has been audited by an independent firm--I don't remember the specifics) and that everything is in order. They do not provide specifics as to how church funds have been spent. Haven't done it for fifty years now.

  10. It is also possible that when Abraham and Sarah added an additional wife to the family that Melchizedek was no longer serving in the office of High Priest but that office had been given to Abraham.

    An even more plausible idea if one accepts the (arguable) theory that Melchizedek and Shem (son of Noah) were one and the same person--Shem/Melchizedek would have getting on in years by the time of their first meeting, and may not have lingered on earth much longer than that.

  11. I think it's the Book of Jude that alludes to Michael disputing with Satan about the body of Moses, which I believe alludes to an old story that when Moses was about to be translated Satan stepped in and objected (because Moses had killed a man).

    I don't look at the Final Judgment as an extremely formal process. But if it is, I think it's conceivable that Satan might serve some kind of accusatory role.

  12. Not out of tithing guy....it comes from church businesses which are taxed.

    Do we know that for certain? I've not seen anything on it one way or the other.

    It is nothing more than cost of living allowance and travel expensives.

    Which, I'm sure, is how adherents of other religions would characterize the pay of their own clergy. As you say, I look forward to hearing from them. My understanding is that, barring a few well-publicized cases, becoming a clergyman is a remarkably ineffective way to become wealthy.

    I just think we need to be careful when we make smug assertions about the evils of a "paid clergy". We have one, too--and IIRC, in the late 19th century even LDS bishops received some remuneration.

  13. I am really stressed about it I guess.. I am trying to do what I am supposed to and it doesn't work out.. it seems to be like this with everything I do.. no matter what task I pick there has to be some kind of trouble. roadblocks.. nothing goes smoothly, I am just tired of being challenged..

    There are some great resources coming down the pipes (new Family Search, digitization of the FHL collections), but it'll take a few years. (Not to mention the fact that hopefully in a little while you may be more financially stable and able to afford subscription services or searches at public records offices).

    My wife's grandmother was once hassled by someone in her ward for not doing enough family history work. Her response was, "You take care of the dead, and I'll take care of the living." I'm not saying this is the case for everyone, but maybe you should ask the Lord whether He'd rather you focus on the living for the time being, and turn your attention to the dead when you have the resources to do so?

  14. Does the Law of Chasity command that LDS who have attraction to the same sex, and not to the opposite gender, must nevertheless seek marriage, so they can procreate?

    I would say that there is a "rebuttable presumption in favor of such a duty" (sorry to get all lawyerly on you). But that presumption does not arise out of the Law of Chastity. It arises out of the New and Everlasting Covenant of Marriage, which is a different (but related) law.

  15. IMHO, two groups might be candidates: Those who are called to lifelong ministry in demanding and difficult settings, and those who are not attracted to the opposite gender. In both cases, the freedom from family entanglements ought to result in better and more service to the Kingdom.

    I, for one, agree with you on this in the abstract though I can't point to any LDS authority to reinforce my position.

    If someone has received a revelation from God that marriage would not be appropriate for them in "the present distress", I wouldn't try to nit-pick at what must have been a very difficult decision. Nevertheless, barring such a revelation I believe that (as per the Proclamation on the Family) the commandment to "multiply and replenish the earth is still in force". As Elder Packer has repeatedly noted, we concern ourselves primarily with teaching the rule and not the exceptions.