happyeverafter

Yes tell your wife, I am the girl who found out on my own and it hurt more than if he would of came and told me. Don't think that she can't feel that something is not right, she may not know what "it" is but she knows. You owe her your honesty ...she said yes to you when you asked her to marry you. She has given you years, some that may not have been the best for you OR her. Sorry if you feel that I may have been a little hard on you. As girls we NEED to know that we are enough, as we send our husbands off to work in a world of beautiful women. WE FEAR THIS VERY THING. To know that your husband WANTS YOU sometimes out weighs the pain. To know that you choose her today and forever could be the point YOU needed to come to.

I am new to things like forums so forgive me for a while. I am a mother of two and a wife of a husband that I love. I have given up a lot of things, so to write about me is so brain racking...For so long I have taken care of everyone but me and thought that I was happy, Until one day my heart was broken. you see my husband had (has) a porn addiction. To find this out 7 1/2 years into a marriage killed me. I did a google search and found this place with other women like me. I need to know that I am not alone. This kills me more as time goes on, I thought it would get easier. I thought that i would find a place to join, to share, to support . I can see why my husband likes his jeep forum. SO THIS IS ONLY A SMALL PART OF ME. HOPE TO GET TO KNOW SOME OF YOU OUT THERE!!