zimfan

An Irishman walks into a bar in Dublin, orders three pints of Guinness and sits in the back of the room, drinking a sip out of each one in turn. When he finishes them, he comes back to the bar and orders three more. The bartender approaches and tells him, "You know, a pint goes flat after I draw it, it would taste better if you bought one at a time." The Irishman replies, "Well, you see, I have two brothers. One is in America, the other in Australia, and I'm here in Dublin. When we all left home, we promised that we'd drink this way to remember the day when we drank together. So I drinks one for each a me brothers and one for myself." The bartender admits that this is a nice custom, and leaves it there. The Irishman becomes a regular in the bar, and always drinks the same way. He orders three pints and drinks them in turn. One day, he comes in and orders two pints. All the other regulars notice and fall silent. When he comes back to the bar for the second round, the bartender says, "I don't want to intrude on your grief, but I wanted to offer my condolences on your great loss." The Irishman looks confused for a moment, then a light dawns in his eye and he laughs. "Oh, no. Everyone's fine," He explains, "I just joined the Mormon Church and I had to quit drinking."

I think she does like him but she not really the 'wear your heart on your sleeve' sort of person. She's always talking about him and saying things like "did you see when he said that to me?" "did you see I made him laugh?" etc. To me it's obvious she likes him but she's good at hiding her feelings when with other people! Thanks for your advice :) I definately don't want anyone mad at me! Thats why I thought I'd ask for some help first!!

When I first fell in love with my bf I was scared to tell him as I thought it might be too soon and I didn't want to scare him away. So I casually brought up a conversation about love and rather than going the whole way I said something like 'I think I might be falling in love with you' I'm glad I didn't tell him all my feelings because he didn't say it back! However, later that week he said he'd been thinking about what I'd said and he thought he loved me too, I was so happy! We're now engaged and I tell him I love him everyday :) My point is, maybe the best thing to do is reveal the truth a little at a time, if you're worried about scaring her off just tell her a diluted version of how you feel and when she's had time to digest that you can wear your whole heart on your sleeve!

Just remembered once I went on a date and the guy had four piece of card, each one with a date written on one side, and I had to randomly chose which date we went on! I know that doesn't really answer the question but I thought it was a really good idea!

Movie night with homemade treats instead of the cinema, Play an old board game neither of you has played in a while, Cook a meal together rather than going to a restaurant, I love aquariums and the other day my bf told me he had a surprise for me, we drove to a garden centre and I had to close my eyes as he lead me though the store and at the back they had all these tropical fish for sale and we could walk around looking at them, it was just as fun as an aquarium and totally free!

I once thought I'd fallen in love at first sight, I went on one date and was planning the rest of our lives together in my head! But I was mistaken as after our second date he told me he didn't feel anything. I was heart broken and cried for about a week, I was convinced he was the one! Now I really have found 'the one' and we're currently engaged, it took me about 4 months to really feel something resembling love this time which worried me at first but as time as gone on my feelings have developed until now they are stronger and deeper than I ever thought possible...I don't believe in love at first sight anymore, true love is too powerful to develop so quickly, it takes time, more for some and less for others. What I felt for the first guy is nothing to what I feel now but at the time I didn't know that! If you think you love someone pray about it and if you truely are in love the spirit will tell you so strongly there will be no denying it!!