I'm gonna jump in late in the game here and say that if my man said that he was told to take another wife I would probably walk out too. We are told and proded and preached to that the family is the most important unit and that husband and wife need to be a team, and wait until you are married to share those sacred parts of yourself and on and on.
This tells me that marriage to God is a BIG deal and not to be taken lightly. That we are cleaved together forever. Thus, we give EVERYTHING we have to this person and for another person to come along and share that is sacreligious in my eyes. JMO though.
If it was God's plan for us to share our men then why make us give ourselves and wait to share our life? Why make sex such a sin? Why make the realtionship so crucial? If everyone had it then where is it special?
Maybe I'm also a little jealous at heart but I can never imagine my husband, who waited to give himself to his wife, giving that to someone else. I would rather die than live like that.
