thejolleyman

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  1. thejolleyman

    Sister Missionaries

    Yeah you guys are right. I'll support her in any decision she makes about it, and I definitely won't force the issue of relationships . thanks for your help
  2. thejolleyman

    Sister Missionaries

    I think it is great that she wants to go. And I give her my full support. I understand that she doesn't want to be in a relationship because that just makes things hard. I just don't understand why she wouldn't want to still be friends. She is just willing to go cold turkey and throw our friendship down the drain... maybe i am just analyzing things too much. I feel like I need to talk to her again but I don't know when. I mean last night she didn't really say much, and I feel like there really wasn't closure or a decision made about what happens next. What or when or how do you think I should... if i should... bring it up.
  3. thejolleyman

    Sister Missionaries

    I'll support her in her decision and see what role in her life she wants me to play. Whether it be friend, or nothing, I guess it is up to her.
  4. thejolleyman

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    Last night I asked her if she wanted me to keep asking her out. She didn't say anything and just shook her head no. I want to keep in contact with her but I don't want to make things hard for her/us. We were going to general conference together but I don't know if that is still on or not. I totally would wait for her in a heartbeat but, I am moving in a year to go to grad school which would make things hard when she returns.
  5. thejolleyman

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    Thanks, I guess I am just kind of lost about it all. I thought she could have been the one. I guess if I had to lose her to someone I am glad it is to the Lord.
  6. thejolleyman

    Sister Missionaries

    So... just wondering. kind of confused right now. I was dating this girl for a while and then last night she said we couldn't date anymore because she didn't want to get too attached. I said, "why", and she said because she was going on a mission. Obviously I am happy that she is choosing to go on a mission and I support it so much, but it just kind of hurts. I asked if she wanted me to keep asking her on dates and she said no, and she started to cry. I am just really confused. Maybe I am just too dense to realize that she didn't want to be with me anymore, but shouldn't it be a happy decision? I want to keep dating her, but I don't know what to do. She doesn't have her mission papers yet but she said she plans on getting them soon. We are both in our early 20s. Please give me any advice you have. Thanks