busymomma

jadams is absolutely right. You can be sealed to any of your family members who are deceased while you are still living.

Whoa-- if he's getting physically and emotionally abusive with you like that, you definitely don't want to continue a serious relationship with your boyfriend. It sounds like he is feeling guilty and upset over your desire to resolve your issues and would rather ignore them. Making you feel guilty and saying you are making him depressed is a red flag, as HE owns his own feelings and responses to what goes on in his life. You do not need to be saddled with someone who is going to make you the scapegoat for their own issues. (I happen to be married to someone who is chronically depressed like that, and although I love him and we work on our relationship, it's no picnic being involved. At least he is not physically abusive.) Just my two cents!