I have this problem with my husband, he finishes work a little earlier then me and when I arrive home the kids are entertaining themselves and my husband is on the computer when I mention it he becomes defensive to the point that on one occassion after I invited him to the table for dinner after several reminders we ate without him when I questioned him later his reply was it's his choice if and when he wants to eat dinner I was baffled and thought who are you and was extremely angry about his comment.
