I completely agree that you shouldn't single date until after high school, and I've always thought that way. But man its tuff sometimes! for example, homecoming is coming up and the guys usually put such an effort into asking you all cute or w/e and i'm gonna feel soooooooo bad if someone asks me and i have to say no.. plus i'm on the committee so i'm gonna have to go anyway.. lol. but ya I've had situations where someone that i really liked asked me and i had to say no, and its really not as easy as it sounds! Any advice on how to break the news gently? Not just for me, but for everyone. (I'm no that worried about getting asked. )