Elgama, without going into why, I want you to know that I know what it is to be bullied, singled out and persecuted because of my standing for the truth against a mob of relief society sisters. Please remember always who it is you have covenanted with and keep your eyes firmly fixed on him, for he is the only one worthy to have your attention. Even if it does not conform to what others say, listen and obey the Holy Ghost, he is the oil in your lamp, be a wise virgin and keep that lamp filled with oil. We are told that we must go through trials and tribulations so we can be like the Saviour - Moroni 7:48. Though others may desert you the Lord never will; an added blessing to this is that you don't have to try and convince him of what is happening, he knows. Rest in his peace, find solace in his words, trust him, believe in him and believe him - he has earned the right to be your leader. Finally, he does not give you the spirit of fear but of faith; avoid those who would tear this down; sometimes we need to stay away from church in order for us to regroup and fortify ourselves. Never stop praying or seeking guidance through the scriptures. Remember Lehi's dream? Those who would partake of the fruit were subjected to persecution by those who had partaken but turned away. Remember also what Nephi said - heed them not. These people are necessary (albeit uncomfortably) for our growth and experience to make us like the Saviour; give yourself permission to honestly assess the situation and make decisions with regards to the safety of your family and you can stand up for yourself without becoming one of them. The Book of Mormon is so true and so applicable in our day, use these experiences to build your understanding and compassion levels for those who are also enduring painful paths. My love goes out to you dear sister, heed them not, they are not worthy of your time or energy. Use this energy for your eternal treasure, your family.