I have been married for a year and a half. I am not an expert on marriage but realize that you are not either if you have only been married for two years. I do know however about the plan of salvation. The scriptures teach us that neither is the man without the woman nor the woman without the man. We believe in families in the church. Families are the reason that we want to return to live with our Father in Heaven once again. Just as Elder Holland, a member of the twelve apostles, said heaven would not be heaven for me without my wife and without my children. My family although small is what brings me the most overwhelming joy. we are expecting our first baby boy in about 4 months and i'm pretty nervous to be a dad. Communication is the most important concept of a marriage. your bishop has the keys to give you the right council for your concerns at this time. However, in my own experience if i ever feel like i cannot talk to my wife about a certain subject no matter how insignificant, it can eat away at you little by little. express your concerns and write out goals that you have as a couple. Marriage does not take 50/50 it takes a 110/110 you should give more than you receive and the best part of that is that it is an investment where you will receive more in return in the end. That simply might just be more happiness and more faith in the Savior. He the most of all knows your circumstances and can help you the most. you and your spouse should read your scriptures together DAILY and pray every night and morning DAILY with specific requests for blessings for your spouse. If you do the basics in your home the spirit will be invited and you can work through any hard times with the Saviors help.
