mrmn_honeybee

Noche10, I just want to extend to you the invitation; if you ever want to just talk about what you're going thru, having been thru a very similar experience myself in the last year, I would be more than happy to listen and try and lend any experience gained. You are not alone and you don't need to feel alone. <3

Rico, You are way out of line telling noche10 that if she does't stay with her huband she in not honoring her marriage vows. While the Chruch does not promote divorce, under certian circumstances (and infidelity is one of them) the Chruch does not require the victimized spouce to remain with their husband/wife. Having reciently been there myself, I know what I'm talking aobut. I also have to agree with mirancs8, here. Clearly you are not seeing it from her perspective and you are being much too harsh with someone who is struggling with a very serious issue. Whatever noche10 decides to do is up to her and Heavenly Father. We should help her by lending our shoulders and our ears, but unless one has been in her shoes, they should keep thier advice to themselves.

Hey noche, I am so sorry to hear about what you're going thru. I know a lot of how you are feeling. I have been thru a similar ordeal with my own husband and so I hope I can help. Last May my husband confessed to me that he had cheated on me two years ago during a Naval deployment with two seprate women from the ship, both of whom knew that he was married. The kicker: when the ship came home I was introduced to and befriended both women. Not only had he betrayed my trust in him and lied to my face about it, but he had then allowed me to become friends with the two women, never knowing who they really were. I was compleatly crushed. I know the pain, anger, and the confusion you are feeling... even the hatred you feel at times. I have also felt it. It feels overwhelming and consuming and never-ending. Take your time, sort out your feelings, and see a chruch counselor. The counselor we saw helped us and me so much! Having someone who I could talk to, cry to, explain all my feelings to was such a relief, and knowing that she wasn't judging, simply listeneing and trying to help. Because of the steps that my husband took to fix what he had done and the fact that he was clearly remorseful for his sins, I decided to stay with him and we have moved forward together. There is still some pain sometimes, but it is now like a scar that is still pink instead of the gaping wound that it was. Together we are healing and growing closer together. But that was my decision. I can not and will not tell you what decision to make as far as your relationship with your husband. That decision is between you and the Lord. It's not between you and your husband because he should wait for whatever you decide (he already made his decisions. now it's your turn), but it should be between you and your Heavenly Father. Just know that you Father does love you and He is there for you. I had a very direct answer to prayer one time when I really needed it and I know that our Father hears us. Whatever you end up deciding with your husband, know that Dad is there for you no matter what. And so am I, dear sister.

I agree with Cassi; the Prophet is the only person who has been given the authority to recieve revelations for the world and the chruch. "Surely the Lord GOD will do nothing, but he revealeth his secret unto his servants the prophets. (Amos 3:7)" We can all recieve personal revelations and revelations that have to do with those we have charge over (i.e.; a bishop may recieve revelation for his congragation, teacher may recieve revelation for teaching their class, parents can recieve revelatoin for leading their family), but the Lord has called His Prophet and He will reveal His great secrets for the world to him. Just a though: Why would God reveal a great secret to John Doe when He already has a Prophet? :)