mellowyellow

Hi:) I logged into this just to tell you this... Go! Go now! and don't look back. I have been married to your husband for 12 years. (not yours of course:) He will not change. He can not it is who he is. I am assuming you don't have children yet. I do. I can't go now. I know when you say your husband hates you you just feel like he does, but he tells you he loves you right? And things will be nice right? And then something will happen and it just sets him off... and then... No physical abuse but the mental stuff seems to be harder. And it's all your fault right? Maybe I am way off and you can work through this. Mine got better for a while and then, this February I found out he was talking to someone else. Someone who makes him feel special and loved. He called it off but he still hates me and says he loves me. Now I can't trust him either. And I never know when it's coming. People should be able to have an argument when they are married and not ask for divorce. Mine asked on our honeymoon. I wasn't a member then and was pregnant and stayed. I stayed when my kids were 1 and 2 and 3... It just gets harder as it goes. I don't want my kids to have divorced parents. I am an idiot though:) I think you should go. You can do it. You will find someone who loves you and treats you right. He is not treating you right. You are a daughter of our Father in Heaven and he wants you to be loved and respected. Good luck to you. Pray and you will make the right decision. Only you know what is best for you.