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Oh no, this is so horrible. I feel so sorry for you and your children. I have known a few couples that this has happened to, and I can't imagine being in this situation. I think the most important thing to do is to take care of yourself, and really think through why you would consider staying in the relationship. I would caution from staying in the relationship "for the children", because I think one of the best things you you can do for your children is give them a solid foundation of two parents who love each other...and if you really loved someone you wouldn't cheat on them.

I'm new here, but thought it would be good to connect with some other members.