God looks at the desires of our hearts...For men = they must do all that they can to find a worthy companion then later marry her in the Temple. For women = they must prepare themselves to qualify for a love of a man, they could prepare spiritually but aside from that, they could attract someone by proper grooming of themselves =) a simple pony tale would do for me ^^ haha...
Do not be so perfectionist, if you are given a chance but not take it...IT WILL BE YOUR OWN DAMNATION, you will be held accountable for it and could eventually lose your eternal reward BUT:TAKENOTE: prayerfully ask the Lord and do fasting if a person is wortthy of your love...Its better to not marry someone than to marry and tie yourself to an undeserving one.
If you die being single but live righteously and would eventually marry in the future...you would not be deprived of your rights ^^ gets? hehe