Motormary

Hello Everyone! After lurking for a few days I thought I would obey the forum gods and write an introductory post to become a part of the forums. I have used the same screen name, "Motormary" around LDS websites and such for the past, gulp 15 years, so if you recognize the name, yes, it's the same old me. For most of you who don't know me, my name is Susan, not Mary, but I'm used to being called Mary because of my screen name, and it doesn't really bother me. Let's see... Convert, 19 years ago, married 20+ years, sealed, 3 kids, all older teens, youngest, almost 16, is active. Have never lived in Utah but it's a nice place to visit. Oh, and it drives me a little nuts when people refer to places outside of Utah as "the mission field", like we are all some sort of heathens or something. Susan

If it "really bothers him" and he "can't get over it", yet she has fully repented and been cleared by the proper authorities, he needs to find someone else, or perhaps put off the idea of marriage until he is more mature. He's doing her a huge disservice by continuing to judge her for actions she has repented of, and if he can't let go of them, he is the one with the problem, and trust me, this will continue to be an issue if he can't deal with it now. If I were her I would run far, far away.