sk8erchick

Yes, I apologize, I wasn't being specific enough. Thank you for clarifying what I was trying to get across. :)

What is so wrong with talking about sex?! Our society is so uptight about sex... This is why so many people have issues with it! Because it's not talked about other than don't do it, it's a sin, it has made so many issues with people not being able to shake the thought that they are sinning when they make love with their spouse. This needs to stop.

Purchase a copy of the book "And They Were Not Ashamed". I just bought a copy of this book the other day because I had some questions and issues about sex. It has helped me out immensely. The book is available thru Deseret Book online. The book starts out with the "Good Girl Syndrom", I think this a lot of the issue with your SIL. The author goes into a lot of detail on how girls and boys are conditioned through parents, the church, and society. As I see it, the church needs to start a class for parents on how to appropriately teach their children abstinance but also teach them how sex is ordained of God, how sacred it is in a marriage to bring the husband and wife closer together. IT IS NOT DIRTY AND A SIN!

Ummm, I have been inactive for a while now, just started to get headed back to the church. I usually lurk in forums, unless I can help out with my point of view. Hope to get some insight on the church and life in general...