i haven't read all the replies, but i have to say, as stated above, all the seemingly active families arent all they appear to be. both my husband and i grew up in very active and strong lds homes and just about a month ago he told me he no longer believes the church to be true. we have ALWAYS been active. it came as a real shock to me. we are only in the beginning process of how to deal with this new change, and thus everyone at church i'm sure believes we have the perfect little life, where in reality, i think i feel just as alone as you.
