I'm not forcing this on someone, but when there is injustice it is up to everyone to solve it. If you object to the marriage aspect of solution solving than offer another way or proposition for the civil rights to be granted. Otherwise, you are forcing religion on government, which operates independently of religion. We have a separation of church and state. If it is just a technical glitch to you that gay people don't get these same rights, and just oh well, then maybe to promote equality we should let the insurance and pension companies save some money and not offer these extending benefits on to the surviving heterosexual spouse. Because if a gay civil union can't have it neither should a straight couple. That sounds a bit absurd to me. (But hey the employers pension fund would sure love that, they'll do anything to save a buck!) It need to be fixed whether the title of marriage is included or not. I did not want to put Athiest as my religion for specific beliefs that I'm just against any religion. For me it is more about evolution vs creationism, I just get upset over all the stuff in the world and do not see religion as anything that aids the situation for the people that are victims. It may give some inside hope and a guide to live their life, but it does not get them out of the situation. If someones field is destroyed in Africa and they'll run out of food, their solution is not to ask god what to do, but to go take action themselves. This is a whole other issue lol. And yes I would grant the same rights to Muslim immigrants (I'm not sure what you refer to by muslim immigrants and which rights you're saying they should not be allowed?) I would also, myself personally, consider some form of plural marriage. (This comes only after seeing the show sister wives, and how they are being persecuted for their religious beliefs.) But as you said, it is not the civil rights you are arguing against but the title itself. Our differences I don't think are that great on the issue as personally I could care less about the title but just the equality of benefits for surviving spouse, and hospital visitation..