I see it this way, The young mother, through true love and sincere prayer in the decision making, can't go wrong either way. Adoption will bless another couple with difficulties in having children in a way that is truly selfless and beautiful. I think we can all agree on that. The mother on the other hand, while I am a guy and will never be a mother, will always remember that baby of hers. Twenty years later she might be in a great relationship with a new set of children of her own but will be missing that first child if she gives it to adoption. I have seen true happiness in couples that just adopted a baby. I have also seen true happiness within a family with a spouse marrying a single parent. And isn't that what it is all about? Check out my website ldsvilla.com