Hi there,
you shouldn't be thinking about how she made to get into the temple, as a bishop you take the person's word during the interview to give them a temple recommend... if she lies, that will affect her only, if she lies, she's digging her own grave (spiritual)... I'm very sorry, but local leaders, general authorities, we are all human, subject to failure, but keep in mind that it's the Lord's business, He is fair.
So as to your bishop, he did what he was supposed to, please don't blame him, it's not easy for him to do something like that, but he has to... he should be a wonderful man... next time you face financial difficulties, try this, pay your tithing faithfully, have faith, the Lord will keep his word, but if you really need help, don't be afraid to ask your bishop's help, the Church can help you with the fast offering fund, it's our right as Church members to be succored in difficult times...
Please, try forgiving the lady who brought such a terrible distress upon your family, this will surely bring you relief and help you overcome those bitter feelings which are in heart
