You already know what you need to do. It's time to talk to him and both of you commit to work on your own faults individually and work together for an eternal union, or it's time to go. After I was married for 8 months, I knew it was time to leave, but I didn't want to hurt his feelings. After 8 years of fighting, crying, being lied to, and basically being miserable, I left him. And the clincher? He didn't come after me. He came after me 2 weeks later when a friend told him he should. That he didn't fight for me--and I knew that he wouldn't--helped me to know that I wasn't worth it to him, and I didn't really want to be with him any longer either. The best way to know if you should get a divorce is this: go to church, do your church calling, listen to the Holy Ghost, repent and be a better person. Then the Holy Ghost can help you to know if you should try one more time, if counseling is the right thing for you, or if it's time to move on. It's scary, I know. Even though it's been hard for me to be a single mom, etc., ii've been so much happier, emotionally stable, and spiritually better than during my hard, miserable, without-true-love marriage.
