Another voice to the chorus saying to go with your gut and give this time, his actions aren't just cold feet or 'normal'. That being said I don't believe 'once a cheater always a cheater'-but honestly there needs to be such a level of transparency and openess that needs to happen in order to regain trust. Is this happening? Any 'questionable' moments" that he can't explain? Any hiding of the cell phone or anything? That's not transparency, and that is a major red flag.
Anyway, yeah, listen to your Bishop and good luck.
Mormongator's thing to consider is fine. Here's how you go about considering it:
Basically, if you marry him, and he cheats on you after you're married, you are giving up your right to be shocked or wounded or hurt or destroyed or sad or depressed or injured, and you have no cause to complain. Because that's who you chose to marry - you knew who he was by his behavior before you married him.
Here's some witty one liners that might help:
* Go into marriage with your eyes wide open, and then remain in your marriage with your eyes half closed.
* If you pick him, you give up the right to gripe should he do it again.
* He did this once, that's on him. Marry him and he does it again, that's on you.
