OK, I'm sorry, but I was asking for advice on what I can do to help guide his attitude to a better place. We don't play video games, don't have a lot of time to watch movies or TV together, he's a full time student and employee, and our extended family situation is very demanding. Please don't make assumptions like that, especially when I'm trying to figure out a way to help him.
As for being pushy, neither of us were able to get a word in edgewise as the eqp talked about what my husband would be doing for half an hour and didn't ask if he would accept, he just assumed.
I know that the calling isnt too demanding, but He's also coming back from a major trial of faith and, quite frankly, at this point I'm just really happy that he's coming to church with me without complaining too much. I know that he needs to get over himself on a few things but those things don't change overnight and I'm not going to force him into anything or make his decisions for him. He's got to do that for himself, and he's slowly making progress.
With all of the issues and baggage that he's trying to deal with and overcome from past experiences, as his wife I'm trying to love him through it and help and guide him closer to the Lord in the ways that I can. So if you have advice for me in that context I'd love to hear it, but please don't throw down on my husband when you don't know the whole situation.