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This isn't really about relationships but my friend and I got this app for fun. I've matched with a lot of guys but me being the shy girl around guys, I am SO nervous to say yes if they ask me on a date or to hang out. I am a super outgoing person, like really, but I've only been on one 1-on-1 date and it was horrible. Anyways, I just need advice on not being shy around guys. Thats the only thing holding me back. I am chill around my guy friends, but if it is an attractive guy, I flip. I'm not sure why I am posting this on here but I need some sort of advice. Help? I am not necessarily looking for a serious relationship but more of dates because I am new to Utah. Thanks y'all! <3

I've liked this one guy for 5 years, but he moved two years ago. We kept in contact. There's a chance we could end up together; but even if we don't, it's okay cause he's such a great friend. I get to see him in a month. And I'll probably cry because of happiness and disbelief but since he doesn't feel the same I don't want to look dumb. Any suggestions on what I should do?(I have no clue what's going to happen)

Welllll update: he texted me! And we've texted but not in depth at all. I actually have to keep the convo going cause he just gives one word replies, so, I'm honestly at the point where I want to give up on it. But I feel like I wasted those two years emailing him. I knew it would be different when he came home, but not this different. I bet He doesn't even want to meet up. I just want to give up on the whole thing. I feel dumb for being so invested in this situation it's just I reallllly care about him and I'm not sure about throwing it all away. But he really is putting in no effort so. I need advice, again. Thanks y'all are the best.

Well, I totally understand that you need to give missionaries some time after they get home to adjust to normal life again. Its been close to a week and he posts on Instagram, but won't reply to my Instagram DM (direct message). My mutual "friend" (i use the finger air quotes because I do not think she has the best intentions of being my friend. She wants to tear him an I apart as friends) with him and I were talking and she said "Oh yeah, we've been messaging but he is taking it slow." And I totally get that, but then she said "Maybe you should just forget him." She literally said I should forget I ever knew him. I have emailed this guy for 2 years and known him for an additional year before the mission (Though we have not met) I can't forget him because he has helped me through SOOOO much. I have been overthinking and now I am under the impression he does not want to talk to me ever again. I know this isn't a big deal, but I guess my mind is going crazy because I know my message is in his inbox, but he is not replying, but Is to others. Any comfort or advice? I have prayed for help to just distract myself and not think about it, but, It is not working so well.

I am not German. I just live here. I am from utah.

This isn't really a topic, but, If anyone needs a smile, or a pick me up, I am here to help! I love making people happy, It really makes me feel so good inside. Shoot me a message or just comment on here. Y'all are fabulous.

This isn't really a topic, but, If anyone needs a smile, or a pick me up, I am here to help! I love making people happy, It really makes me feel so good inside. Shoot me a message or just comment on here. Y'all are fabulous.

This isn't really a topic, but, If anyone needs a smile, or a pick me up, I am here to help! I love making people happy, It really makes me feel so good inside. Shoot me a message or just comment on here. Y'all are fabulous.

Can you Private message me somehow? Id like to talk about this more.

Yeah, havent even met him yet haha.

He was in Texas before he left and I'm in Germany. But I move to Utah in less than a month and he is moving to Idaho

We were. Now we we'll be 3 hours apart

September is when I then 18.

Oh yeah I know. But we can be friends and if something happens and feelings grow, can my parents approve?

True. true. I'll see him next month. I just want to be friends with him right now but I'm just confused on how to act.

I will try to keep this as condensed as possible. I am 17 right now about to graduate High School. 3 years ago, my EFY counselor told me about a young man she had the year previous at EFY and she told him to start messaging me, and so he did. We lived about 6,000 miles apart, across an ocean, but we really hit it off. We became best friends like that, and then we had some feelings for each other. Important: We have never met.....Fast forward a few months, he got his mission call and left in June of 2015. We email every Monday the whole 2 years. At first, he was super flirty and then it faded which I was totally okay with because the Gospel is the focus of his mission, not some girl. He is always so encouraging! So, he comes home tomorrow. I will not see him until the end of June but in his emails he tells me that he want's to see me, and go on dates. My question is; Do I just wait for him to message me or call me when hes ready? (Since he will be in RM mode) I was not going to message him until he did first, but I'm afraid he wont. I don't know, I would just really like advice on what to do. He is one of my best friends but I still have feelings there..... What to do?? I just am not sure how to feel. I AM SO EXCITED, but like, is he going to talk to me still? I didn't even email my brother that much on his mission....He is so special to me. They were the best two years of his life, and the best two of mine because of him, He strengthens my testimony every day. He is the reason I am so strong in the church because I was not before. Any advice?