I understand how you feel and I think it’s horrible that people who don’t know what they’re talking about say it’s all your fault, you don’t love her and should repent. I’m not saying they’re necessarily wrong, but it’s nit coming from a place of love and might not be the main issue here. If you knew how, I think you’d have forgiven and not be bothered by it, so saying just do it doesn’t help much. She made a mistake, and suddenly you’re wrong. I don’t know what the right answer is, we can pray for healing. I hope we find it.
