Morning Star, I am sorry to hear that 50% of your Elders and Preists, and High Priests are addicted to porn. Satan is defenitely running rampant and focusing directly on LDS men. He knows that the family is key to our Fatthers plan and if he can break that apart then he's won. By using men he can very easily break apart a family or stop their progression by getting the father to sin. First off I would encourage the father to talk to the bishop. Let your husband know you love him and that he doesn't need to worry about telling you until he's ready or at all. Sisters, let your husbands work out their problem(s) w/ the Bishop, if necessary to tell you what he's done, he'll come to you when the time is right. Sisters, you can also assure him that nothing he's done would cuase you to leave him except infidelity (and that's your choice, you may choose to tell him that even infidelity won't cause a divorce. That's your choice on how much you want to forgive that kind of sin). If you tell him you're not leaving and you're here through thick and thin he'll pick up the phone and make the neccessary appointment ASAP. If he thinks he'll be in trouble, he'll drag his feet if at all. So I say to you sisters, support and reinforce your husbands and you wont have so much of unworthiness all around. Then if you need a blessing, and you have done the above, he should have no problem if you get a blessing somewhere else. (Just my 2 cents):)