Jbs2763 Posted January 10, 2010 Report Posted January 10, 2010 i never got the "she's interested bail" mentality... I've always been the type as to think "she's interested? really? right on!" type.... alot of times if a smokin hot girl is freindly to us...and we don't have the highest self esteem...we are looking for the catch...its always gotta be a work, no way this girl who is way above my paygrade is interested in me...she's gotta be working an angle..what is it?...etc mabye thats part of why guys are freakin out on ya? just in my experience...but then again..i've been worked over more than a few times over the years... Quote
kileyizzle Posted January 10, 2010 Author Report Posted January 10, 2010 LOL! i don't think i fall into the smoking hot category maybe ... hmmmm i have noticed the majority of YSA boys that i have been speaking too, find it super difficult to talk to the girls, myself being a member, i too am afraid of them... rofl... it is super hard trying to get the nerve up to speak to them sorry to hear that you've been worked over too poppet, rest assured you will have a huge LOVE in your life, now or the next :) Quote
Jbs2763 Posted January 10, 2010 Report Posted January 10, 2010 i guess the accent don't affect 'em down there does it? Quote
kileyizzle Posted January 10, 2010 Author Report Posted January 10, 2010 What yours or mine? rofl Quote
Jbs2763 Posted January 10, 2010 Report Posted January 10, 2010 yours....up in my neck of the woods the boys would be all over the aussie accent...are you sayin down there the girls would be all over my 'hick' accent as i've been told it is? Quote
kileyizzle Posted January 10, 2010 Author Report Posted January 10, 2010 probably! HAHA gotta use what you have aye! lol, perhaps i should relocate? Quote
Jbs2763 Posted January 10, 2010 Report Posted January 10, 2010 I'd recommend Indiana too ya...but there aren't very many LDS here...and its currenlty -14 C Quote
kileyizzle Posted January 10, 2010 Author Report Posted January 10, 2010 lol you say that when tomorrow it's going to be 43 degrees here... loves it Quote
jlmcbride Posted March 15, 2010 Report Posted March 15, 2010 Even if you were really good-looking, the guys wouldn't pay attention to you anyway. I have found that in my experience in dating Mormon guys that I have had to ask them out first. They are also oblivious to you when you like them. Quote
kileyizzle Posted March 25, 2010 Author Report Posted March 25, 2010 lol oh i've asked out heaps of em.. some say yes and change their minds others just flat out no... 4 years of being single.. c'mon guys... sympathy date anyone? Quote
kc247 Posted March 27, 2010 Report Posted March 27, 2010 It is difficult.. guys can be incredibly shallow, but attraction is a major part in a relationship. When I moved to the YSA branch I'm at now, (which is quite small), there was only a couple people who were 'couples' out of everyone.. I thought it was a bit sad, there were a lot of great girls but the guys never asked them out because they weren't 'attracted' to them.. they never even gave them a chance. The girls were similar as well though, they felt the same about the guys for the most part. I had a few guys ask me out and I didn't go, because I knew i could never be attracted to them and I didn't see the point in going out with someone who I knew I'd never marry. I am dating a great guy who I met there now though, but I had asked him why he never dated any of the other girls at the branch and he said the same thing. He wasn't attracted.. & guys seem to have high standards as well. He said he couldn't date a girl who was overweight, too short, etc.. which I didn't think wasn't really fair. So... yeah, guys can expect too much.. they can't be too picky or they'll just end up alone.. Quote
Jbs2763 Posted March 30, 2010 Report Posted March 30, 2010 girls can be just as, if not more shallow than guys...trust me..i grew up 'fluffy' Quote
kileyizzle Posted March 30, 2010 Author Report Posted March 30, 2010 lol yeah i've spoken to alot of guys and girls i'll call it research while researching i found out some of the following... dating to marry while useful in your plight to find your eternal companion wipes out a whole lot of amazing people... infact one person whom i spoke to said he wouldn't settle on dating anyone that didn't immediantly meet up to his standards... heres the thing; you got to make it work put in the effort man you can't expect to be like oh.. she's the one without any flaws. be realistic and heck have fun with it. if it doesn't work out you have a new buddy to hang with! lol i've been rejected 11 times this year; don't mean i'm gonna stop i'm aiming for 12 by the end of next week ahah Quote
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