bristleconesky Posted April 11, 2009 Report Posted April 11, 2009 Dating Advice Prior to First Date, Please? I have known about this girl for about six months. She is kinda shy but she's very lively around her close friends. I've only talked to her briefly a few times. Well, we crossed paths the other day and I said hi and she said hello. Then a few seconds later she asked me how I was doing and I said fine but failed to say something back and I was thinking in my head what an idiot I was for not saying something more as I was heading to my next class. Last week I contacted her on Facebook and asked for her phone number and if she was going to be around in April. She gave it to me and I asked her on a date later that night and she accepted. This girl is also about 8 years younger then me. The date is next Wednesday... This is the first time I have asked a girl on a date that I don't know hardly. Usually I become acquainted first. So my question is what is the proper moves to be making up until the official night? Do I need to call her every couple days, text her or just wait until a few days before the date? Do I need to find a way to keep daily contact? That's what my brother says but I am not too sure about that? She going home for Easter... and she's also on Facebook. Any advice? haha! Quote
Islander Posted April 11, 2009 Report Posted April 11, 2009 Dating Advice Prior to First Date, Please?I have known about this girl for about six months. She is kinda shy but she's very lively around her close friends. I've only talked to her briefly a few times. Well, we crossed paths the other day and I said hi and she said hello. Then a few seconds later she asked me how I was doing and I said fine but failed to say something back and I was thinking in my head what an idiot I was for not saying something more as I was heading to my next class. Last week I contacted her on Facebook and asked for her phone number and if she was going to be around in April. She gave it to me and I asked her on a date later that night and she accepted. This girl is also about 8 years younger then me. The date is next Wednesday...This is the first time I have asked a girl on a date that I don't know hardly. Usually I become acquainted first. So my question is what is the proper moves to be making up until the official night? Do I need to call her every couple days, text her or just wait until a few days before the date? Do I need to find a way to keep daily contact? That's what my brother says but I am not too sure about that? She going home for Easter... and she's also on Facebook. Any advice? haha!And you are how old? Quote
StallionMcBeastly Posted April 11, 2009 Report Posted April 11, 2009 And you are how old?If he says anything younger than 26 I'm going to punch him lol Quote
StallionMcBeastly Posted April 11, 2009 Report Posted April 11, 2009 Dating Advice Prior to First Date, Please?I have known about this girl for about six months. She is kinda shy but she's very lively around her close friends. I've only talked to her briefly a few times. Well, we crossed paths the other day and I said hi and she said hello. Then a few seconds later she asked me how I was doing and I said fine but failed to say something back and I was thinking in my head what an idiot I was for not saying something more as I was heading to my next class. Last week I contacted her on Facebook and asked for her phone number and if she was going to be around in April. She gave it to me and I asked her on a date later that night and she accepted. This girl is also about 8 years younger then me. The date is next Wednesday...This is the first time I have asked a girl on a date that I don't know hardly. Usually I become acquainted first. So my question is what is the proper moves to be making up until the official night? Do I need to call her every couple days, text her or just wait until a few days before the date? Do I need to find a way to keep daily contact? That's what my brother says but I am not too sure about that? She going home for Easter... and she's also on Facebook. Any advice? haha!The best thing you can do is not put a lot of importance on it. Talk to her every few days... keep other 'love' interests as well and stay busy.Go somewhere with built in conversation... window shopping? I dunno.Just relax and enjoy it... don't put your whole life on the line for this one woman you barely know - and don't let your emotions spazz out. Quote
bristleconesky Posted April 11, 2009 Author Report Posted April 11, 2009 And you are how old?I'm 27 years old... Quote
Soul_Searcher Posted April 11, 2009 Report Posted April 11, 2009 I would send her a text or message saying how much you are looking forward to the date :) I would love that if I was her. Quote
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