Soul_Searcher

I usually wear bikinis. I Dont think you can be worried about modesty issues if u intend to get partially naked and swim in front of strangers. Either I think is fine. I wear short-type bottoms most of the time as I am fairly curvy around that area lol. I am also curvy up top so bikinis suit me better as i can choose the size.

I was goin to say service too. You really get to know members and whats going on in the ward-the heart and hub of the ward is in service.

Hubby would only be upset because I kept it from him, not that we slept in the same bed. Gwen I didnt help him as a) its a bit weird of him to ask me and b) what he was asking was so ridiculously impossible it was almost laughable!!! I agree really, past should stay in the past :)

I agree which is what I have done. Was interested in peoples opinions really.

I should also mention that my hubby has hinted he has got up to things in the past with girlfriends-nothing serious just the usual getting carried away you do when ur kising or whatever if u no what I mean. i havent asked about it because I dont care, it doesn't matter at all to me.

OK, My last boyfriend before my husband contacted me recently asking for help to propose to his girlfriend, of all things... Now, he is not a member and we only dated for a few months about 6 years ago. However, when we were dating, we shared a bed. We did NOT have sex or do anything bad apart from one time. I did more with my hubby when we were dating. In his email he told me how much he respected my decision to not have sex before marriage and I taught him so much about relationships. He also said if it wasn't for me he doubts he would still be with his girlfriend as their sex life diminished after the birth of their daughter, and because he had been with me he realised sex wasn't the most important thing in a relationship. He mentioned a couple of other things and my stomach turned over when I read it because my hubby was sitting right next to me. I have never told my hubby that we slept in the same bed, and because it has been so long it would be a big deal if I ever mentioned it now. I have also never confided this to a Bishop. The thing is, when I was in YSA I had lots of male friends and we used to share beds a lot, including with my hubby before we were married on seversal occasions. I dont want to be looking over my shoulder in case this comes up again,which is unlikely as I mever see him really maybe once ina blue moon in town or something. Just wondered what everyones thoughts were on this???

Welcome, I get good vibes from ur post. Hope u enjoy it here!

I wouldn't let my daughter do it if I had one. I worry when my hubbys home 5 mins late and he's a fully grown 30 year old, never mind a 14 year old sailing alone round the world, even is she WAS experienced.

He's the ward clerk and the stake member in question has a grudge against him because he got a divorce.

Ive had a great day. Had my appointment with the consultant gynacologist who said we can start our treatment in as little as 8 weeks if we want, and we will be having it at a specialist centre in London, At St Barts hospital! Very exciting.

I didnt get asked all the questions by the Stake either. My Dad didnt get asked any, it was more of a chat.

We are not like u Americans over here lol. I have maybe recieved one gift from VTers in my whole life and that was a Christmas. If they cant make it that month they just ring and say sorry I cant. Im the same. End of lol.

I thought it meant that too!! Incidentally, what happens if you dont get asked the question? My hubby didnt get asked if he worse garments so does that mean he doesnt have to wear them?! (Bit of a flippant question Im not totally serious but still....)

Well I disagreed with the prom thread so I'm not being hypocritical! Who says they are even endowed anyway? Its none of our business if they are and risky to make assumptions. Not wearing garments isnt immodest anyway. Does that mean we are immodest when swimming or sleeping? If I wore a burkha but didnt wear my garments would I be immodest?

We dont really do anything in particular-We have a pay-as-you-go meter so we can control what we put on it. Maybe now that the clocks have gone back we will put 20 quid a week on it. The gas we would put 15-20. But we are hardly ever home so we dont use that much. We only use it at weekends and for 4 hours in the evening. Haha theres my tip-Dont be home!!!