ldsgurl_2002 Posted April 20, 2006 Report Posted April 20, 2006 ok ok this is going to be one of those i can't tell my friends my standards things...but the friend knows my standards....well atleast she used to go to church and she has gone way away from the church in reallly bad places...and i used to like hanging with her before she went heathen on me...now i can't stand being around her because the music she listens to and her language and her stories of things she's done....i know i know your going to tell me that i should tell her that i don't appreciate it but i think she will get mad and then i will lose her as a friend...i don't want that to happen i just want her to change around me atleast...she came to pick up her brother from church tonight and i cringed every time she said something horrible and she wants to hang out tomorrow....i don't want to!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! but i can't say no i don't wanna hurt her feelings....when my parents took me out of school to homeschool me she cried so i know she i dunno cares about me or something so i don't want to hurt her like that one time....please help me!!! Quote
Guest Monica Posted April 20, 2006 Report Posted April 20, 2006 Has she said why she has left church or why the sudden change? Ask her about her decision and then be honest with her about yours. Show her what you shared with us here. Above all pray for her that God protect her. Quote
Lindy Posted April 20, 2006 Report Posted April 20, 2006 gurl, I'm sorry your in a spot your not comfortable in.... I'm sure we all have someone in our lives who is a thorn in our side that we have a hard time with. We just have to learn to deal with it the best we can, if she's a friend.... she's a friend.... and there has to be a reason you call her friend. I agree... be honest with her... if she respects you at all as a friend...she'll tone it down when your around. Honesty never hurt anything gurl.... well unless it's the guy who answers the question..."does this make me look fat?"....LOL I have friends who say they are sorry if they use certain words around me.... ones not in my every day vocab.... that's why they are my friends.... :) If I get really angry and belt something out I shouldn't have and it bothers someone.... yeah I'm going to apologize and try not to do it again. NO one is perfect... we all have things we need to work on... maybe being around you once in a while might give her that wee little chance of changing her ways. Just remember you called her a friend.... ask yourself why? than go from there. Friends help each other when needed... if she's your friend...than she'll think about it... if not... maybe she'll still think about it and come around later. good luck with that one kiddo :) Quote
8cow Posted April 20, 2006 Report Posted April 20, 2006 Hey- this is tough. I know how you feel. Just ask her to stop being disrespectful. If she doesn't then tell her you can't hang out w/ some1 that says those kinds of things. She'll understand, and if she doesn't then just try to be a good influence. Sorry I'm not much help. Good luck! Quote
ldsgurl_2002 Posted April 20, 2006 Author Report Posted April 20, 2006 thanks everyone...i knew you would say something like that but i needed the encouragement...i will try my best to let her know that i can't hang with her if she doesn't change around me Quote
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