Guest Posted October 10, 2013 Report Posted October 10, 2013 I don't know what to do. I have had one of her "friends", who claims to be a member, tell me that I should be excommunicated or something. I am willing to accept what I have done. I know that I will never go to the temple or get to the celestial kingdom. I have accepted that. I hurt. I am tired of hurting all of the time. I've been told that I am selfish. Maybe I am. I don't know anymore and I don't find life really worth it anymore. I just wish that I could just die. I wish that I would have never been born..... I wouldn't hurt those around me. I don't want anyone to help, I just want to vent so I don't do anything, but the feelings are there.....I know that there are others that are worse off then I am...... and I am sorry for upsetting anyone.,...Abe. Stop for just a few minutes. There is ABSOLUTELY NO REASON that you will never go to the temple or go to the celestial kingdom outside of yourself. YOU can make that happen. Your girlfriend, her family, her friends.... they have no say on whether you can go to the temple or the celestial kingdom. ONLY YOU can stop that from happening.Therefore, stop whatever this nonesense they are feeding you and surround yourself with people who believe in you. Just get out of that toxic environment. Go to the church. Talk to bishop. ASK THEM FOR HELP.You can go to the temple, you can go to the celestial kingdom. But you can't get there unless you put one step forward. One step at a time. Maybe it will take a step forward and a few steps back before you can step forward again. BUT YOU NEED TO MAKE THAT STEP FORWARD. RIGHT NOW. And that first step is to take yourself very far out of that environment you are in and reach out to the people who can make you healthy again! Quote
NeuroTypical Posted October 10, 2013 Report Posted October 10, 2013 I don't know what to do. I have had one of her "friends", who claims to be a member, tell me that I should be excommunicated or something. I am willing to accept what I have done. I know that I will never go to the temple or get to the celestial kingdom.If you haven't gone to your bishop yet, I know what you should do. Although it might actually result in something happening. Pity parties are only great when you are trying to avoid change.You can make change a positive thing, you know... It doesn't always have to hurt... Quote
Praetorian_Brow Posted October 10, 2013 Report Posted October 10, 2013 Guilt tripping him will not bring the results you think they will, neither will the tough love approach. Talk to a therapist, go outside. Quote
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