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I think that anyone who is anti-mormon is someone who activley seeks to destroy someone's testimony of the gospel. In other words, I think it would be someone who can not tolerate The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. (of course, like it was said earlier, there are exceptions to this rule as there are with every rule.)

How do you think attitude affects your daily life?

I am 22 years old, single, female. I've lived in N. Utah my whole life and love the color purple. I am the only girl and I have 3 older brothers and 1 younger. I have 1 cat whom we named Puddy Tat, Pudds, Kit Kat, Pus, and ######. Take your pick, they're all good, cats don't come when called to anyways. AND I like photography.

Why is it that men are always refered to as pigs as though its a bad thing? I mean, pigs are not only delishious when served up as ham, bacon, baby back ribs, etc etc...but they are also one of the cleanest animals on the farm. They are HIGHLY intellegent and have been proven in many instances to be easier to train than dogs. Some of their heart valves are usable in human heart surgery and have thus saved the lives of many many many people. Pigs can smell truffles which are no cheap thing. And above all a good pig doesnt want to hurt anyone. It just wants to lay in the shade, play in some mud, and eat yummy slop. I for one stand up for the pig. And if being a pig means I'm a clean, layed back, intellegent, life saver....then I'm a pig. ← Lol. I guess that's why we, speaking on behalf of some women, say "You can't live with 'em, you can't live with out 'em"

Showed no interest... That's a tough one. I personally, have a hard time showing interest. I'd rather not open myself up to some one if I don't KNOW that they're interested. I had that experience once. I dated a really REALLY nice guy, he asked me twice to be his girlfriend and I turned him down, then when I was finally ready to date him seriously he totally rejected me. Oh man, that hurt. I guess it is better to show interest than to not.

Begood2, thank you for walking in the other person's shoes. My asking him out was most likley due to the fact that I was too fat, too ugly or I wasn't good enough for him??? I think what you really mean to say is that I'm too fat, too ugly or I'm not good enough for the guy. So, when I have been asked out it's all been out of pity, right? What you really are saying, Disruptive1, is when you ask some one out, you only take out the ones who are "good enough" for you? But, that could never happen because no girl is flawless. I apologize, I wasn't the one to ask him out, it was my friend asking the guy she liked out. I'm just complaining on her behalf. Women can be fat and gorgeous at the same time. Men can be fat and sexy at the same time.

If men are visual creatures, they are living in a world of disappointment, unless all they see are magazines. In that case, they are living in a world of ignorance. So basically what you're saying is the fact that this guy turned me down was not his own personality or desires but the way God created men?

I heard that you guys like it when a girl asks you out, right? Well, if you turn down a girl who asks you out, what do you think your chances are of her asking you out again? Seriously, if you men don't do something soon, we're all going to turn into old maids.

I'm a single white female, looking for a man like you!

The scariest thing that ever happened to me was when I was 19 I had incredible pains shooting down my left leg. I had no idea what it was, thought it could be a pinched nerve in my back. So, I started going to a chiropractor and started exercising more. Well, after 3 months of no relief, in fact, it was starting to get worse. I couldn't sit for more than 10 minutes. Seriously, in sacrament meeting in church, I'd sit in the back, it was my goal to be able to sit until after sacrament was over, yeah, I reached my goal a few times but more often I wouldn't even be able to sit. Oh, I was in real serious pain. It was so bad that I started sleeping on the floor because my mattress was too soft and after my car ride to work, which was 5 min, I would limp through the parking lot. Finally, after 2 minutes being in the car I called my parents and said "I have had enough, I need some serious help. I am in pain and I can not handle it." We realized at that time that this problem was not going to get better unless something drastic happened. So we set an appointment up with an orthopedic surgeon who suggested an MRI and gave us these possible options of what was causing me pain. 1. Cancer. 2. Ruptured disc. 3. Pinched nerve. After talking to him I was even more scared. I cried to my mom that I was going to die of cancer, and I'm only 19! When the results of the MRI came back the diagnosis was not a bright one, but I was officially a medical anomaly! I had a ruptured disc in my lower back that was pushing my spinal cord against my vertebra. I had to have back surgery!!! I was only 19 and I had back surgery. I was so young and traumatized, I seriously thought the surgeon was going to nick my spinal cord and I'd be paralyzed or maybe he'd nick the part that went to my heart and I'd die. I think I had the best spinal surgeon in the country because I have never had any problems since. I've had sore days but, I can now sit for extended periods of time!!!! I can sit through sacrament meeting. OH, another scary thing, before my surgery, my doc's prescribed me Vioxx and Bextra as anti inflammatories and pain killers, and now they are pulled from the market. So instead of being paralyzed, I get to die of a heart attack!!!

There is a fine line between kissing that is good and kissing that is bad. I once had a boyfriend who defined it well: Kissing is a healthy way to express affection and making out is kissing with the intention of going further than kissing. Take it as you may but, with experience in both departments my advise is: just don't make out. I've been in that situation, it's hard to tell some one to stop because everything feels so good. It's also awkward between the two of you when you put and end to making out. The way I see it making out is the door way between showing affection and foreplay. When you married, sure, make out all the heck you want to. When you're single, keep it at kissing and that's it.