wow...I completely understand we should plan our RS activities with a purpose, but it sounds like you did that AND accomplished it. I would hate to have a RS activity that the sisters DIDN'T enjoy. Even the most spiritual meeting should be enjoyed. I always go straight to LDS.org to look things like this up. Plan Weekday Relief Society Meetings to Strengthen Sisters . The Gen. RS Pres. said, "First ask, “What do the sisters need to help them increase in faith and personal righteousness, strengthen family and home, and provide relief to others?” Then ask, “What can we do to meet these needs?” Questions such as the following will bring insight during the planning process and help keep the proper focus: * What issues and problems are interfering with sisters’ preparation for the blessings of eternal life? * What do they need to learn and do in order to be strengthened? * What strengths and gifts do they have that could be used in service? * What would we like to happen in our sisters’ lives as a result of Relief Society meetings? Then, here is the quote that it sounds like your bishop is thinking of, “It is time to get out of the entertainment business and into the business of salvation.”—Julie B. Beck There is even a sample planning sheet there, that can be printed out. I looked at it too. It states, "ALL Relief Society Meetings are to: • Build faith and personal righteousness • Strengthen family and home • Provide service" Considering your first room, the "Star" room, your sisters were spiritually enlightened. The stories of the Old Testament are faith building and promote personal righteousness. They strengthen family and home if applied to our own lives. Learning from the lives of the women of the Old Testament will help the sisters of today provide service to our families and to others in a Christlike manner. The only "entertainment" I could see in your activity was perhaps room two. However, women need to learn to take care of themselves, not only physically, but also, and just as important, mentally and spiritually. A woman can't nurture others if she never nurtures herself. Your third room was a kind act of service. A thank you to your priesthood leaders. In my humble opinion, the mission of RS was accomplished. I'll get off my soapbox now. I know we need to support our leaders, but I do believe that you planned with the RS purposes in mind. I'm glad your sisters got something out of your activity, but I'm sorry that you leave it with such a bad experience. Good luck with your next activity.