jherre

I have to find someone to "not trust" first. :)

Well yea I have trust issues. for the first 5 years I thought that had the perfect marriage and the perfect life with a perfect family. And then had it all shattered. I will probably have trust issues my whole life. I dont think this is something that someone can completely recover from.

We have shared custody.

Ok so I ll just admit it now... Its me. I was married for about 7 years(we have 3 children together)(we were married in temple). About 5 years into it my wife (at the time) told me she was gay. Less than 6 months later she had an affair or two and bla bla bla now were divorced. Its been about 3 years and havent dated. I am having trouble meeting anyone to date. I guess that my problem is that if I were a single LDS girl I would have a hard time dating a divorced father of 3 that didnt serve a mission. I have tried all of those online dating sites with no success. I am just not the go up and talk to people type. So ........ how am I supposed to meet someone. Wow reading thru this I seem a bit lonely and scatterbrained, but I think you get the jist of it.

Phone a friend. Find someone you can trust and use them as a support system. Talk it out. Good luck and stay strong

I am a divorced man who was married/sealed in the Temple. I have looked into it and I cannot get my sealing canceled until I have someone else to get sealed to.

First thing that you need to do is give her a heads up on your dilema. Explain the problem. I have seen girls that cant find a modest prom dress wear an undershirt. It is actually quite common. If it cant work there is no shame to respectfully back out.

The best advise I can give you is to tell someone you can trust. Satain wants you to keep it in. It gives those images more power. Plus you need a support system. you need someone that you can call when you are having the urge to look. Trust me. YOU CANT KICK THIS ALONE

Thruout out lives we will be faced with many trials of our bodies and our spirituality. God will never give us a trial that we cannot handle. Once you compromise your own beliefs then you will not be able to respect yourself. How are you to expect anyone to show you any respect if you cannot respect yourself. Good luck Stay strong

I went to a marriage councellor(LDS) at LDS Family services. It was the best thing I ever did. They helped me sort thru my feelings and straighten out my emotions so that I could make the right decision. Good luck

Well there's a first time for everything. :)

I knew you couldn't resist. My name is Jason and I am a divorced(gasp) father of 3 wonderful boys. I have been LDS my whole life but had a short falling out the last couple years of my marriage. It really is hard to go to church without your spouse. I have been single/divorced for almost 3 years now. I have an interesting story if anyone is interested.