originally posted by mightynancy : Don't let the other girls get in the way of your dreams and goals. They are not in charge of your salvation - you are the one making choices for yourself. Ask yourself if your choices bring you closer to Christ...if they do, you're on the right track. Do your choices prepare you to make and keep sacred covenants? If they do, you're on the right track. The rest is fluff.
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I agree with what mightynancy has to say. Just remember, there are always going to be people who think they know what is best for you, no matter where you go in this world. When i first joined the church i thought i had to strongly consider everything everyone was telling me to do, like: who to marry. when to marry, how many kids i should have etc.. etc.... I made a huge mistake in listening to the advice on who i should marry and when. You know better than anyone else what is best for you.
As long as your living the gospel principals and you are a kind loving decent human being and you do not neglect you duties - what ever thy may be- then you will be fine.
Oh and by the way i know 2 men in the church who stay at home while their wives go out to work because they are better with the kids. Whatever works right?