You realize that the Prophet does take into consideration the feelings of others right? There are times when leaders of the church take counsel from members. During my departing interview from my Mission President he asked if I had any counsel for HIM on what he could do better to run the mission. Although he's not a prophet, seer, and revelator, he is still a key holder yet he sought counsel from a missionary. Take Moses for example. He tried to be the single judge for everyone. His father-in-law, Jethro, comes along and counsels him to get some help in his calling, to call other men to be judges in Israel. Moses took that counsel and applied it. The Lord God validated it and that became part of the church. That wasn't from Moses, it was from another guy who had no calling. I would say Jethro started the calling, through the Spirit, of stake presidents, bishops, and other callings that are judges in Israel.