This is an awesome question... sadly, there's never just one answer (I wish there were, especially when it comes to guys), but I think that all girls, no matter how much we'll deny it, will look at how a guy looks, even if it's at the bottom of our priorities list. *keep in mind all girls have different tastes too... You have to remember that girls will look for a lot more than just looks though. I know among my acquainatances we look for loyalty, humour (good humour, not mean stuff), smarts (not smart alecky, but intelligent), if they're members they usually look for someone who's at least active, someon who's sweet (as in... saying nice things when you need a perk up, or simply knowing when you need a hug or something), etc... Sorry if this is kinda overwhelming, but I'm pretty sure most girls will look for a variety of things. The thing is... these characteristics, as well as their order of importance will vary from girl to girl, so you can't actually answer your question unless one girl is answering specifically to you... Good Luck with your lady dilemmas and such... *I don't think I made much sense, so feel free to ask for clarification* Oh and if you could answer the same, but for guys, that'd be awesome! thanks