Brother_Anon

In all honesty, is he looking at porn, or just masturbating? If it's the latter, and doesn't involve porn, it's not something you need to get all worked up over. At the same time, and I'll put this as delicately as possible, how is the "intimate" relationship between the two of you? Research shows that for most men under the age of 60, after about 3 days of no "intimate" contact, it gets more and more difficult to avoid trying to find a... release. This is the point, again, for most men, when the short skirts/tight tops/tabloid bikini images can begin to become a distraction. Now, all of this depends on your feelings of masturbation within a marriage, something the church is silent on, although others might disagree. (And I'll gladly debate why we feel it's ok. :>)

So, did you tell him? Are you happily married? Did he freak out and dump you?

Better yet, the next time he feels the need to stay awake, grab a Red Bull, which has about the same amount of caffeine and isn't against the WoW. :) (OK, Mormons, drink up — Coke and Pepsi are OK | The Salt Lake Tribune) In all seriousness, having worked closely with a number of bishops, this is nowhere near the level of needing to confess to yours. Bishops are incredibly busy people and while a number of sins need to be dealt with through them (primarily sex related sins), we need to remember that our salvation is something to be worked out between ourselves and the Lord, not ourselves, the Lord, and our bishop.