To add to my remarks, I learned on my mission that if you do not know for sure but believe it to be so, act in faith that it is the right thing to do and the Lord will reveal what you should do as you move and you act. Also, this is very sacred but I had the feeling to share it. Right after I finished writing the reply I went to read the Book of Mormon for my Personal Scripture Study and was awed and amazed at the words which applied directly to my thoughts about this matter and I invite you to read them. He the Lord is talking through Isaiah. Nephi and Jacob loved Isaiah. I love him more every time I read from his words, lately. I encourage you to pray before and after you read and study this text... 2 Nephi 8 the whole thing (the scriptures I read, however, are 7 through the end of the chapter.)
I hope it helps. Let me know. I would be greatly pleased if you read and applied. It is good to know others are thinking about this problem besides Leaders of Tue Church. I believe there are more, many more that have that concern and have applied the principles we talked about. And yes, I would like you to know that Zelda has been on my mind as I have considered this principle both for myself and being a light to believers.
I thank you for posting about your feelings on this. I hope that this helps.
Sincerely, your fellow Utahn