maggie83

I wanted to find a website that was pertating to this question and I stubbled onto this website and I was glad that I did because i'm mormon and I have been married to my wife for 6 years this year and to be honest she is overweight. I was looking for a bigger wife because I would be happy ,but at the same time if she was not fat then I would be happy also. When I meet my wife she did not have any type of red flags so I knew she was good for me, but at the same time I had to open up to her and tell her I perferd a fatter women , she was around 180 pounds at that time. She did not understand at that moment but when she took the time and understood why she was ok with it. She understands that it is a sexual thing and she knows that I would go with a bigger female, so since she was chubby at the time she felt comfortable knowing she could please me and I could love her for who she is . She likes being the fat wife for me. I know there are men out in this world that do love there wife fat , but to me reading your thread it seems like your husband is being selfish and not focusing on you and not loving you. I would have to say that the man you married does not like a female that is overweight so don't you have to please him with that so maybe you two need to compramise with that. You also need to remember that you married a man that was not honest with you in the first place so he is not perfect too, none of us are. If you take the time and fix things through then maybe it might work out , if not then you have to ask yourself did I marry a man that loves me for who I am or not. Last thing I wanted a bigger wife in the first place so that was what I was looking for and I got one , I also need to love her for who she is not for looks so I also need to love her also not benig fat to.