Although the formal instructions for giving blessing indicate that the person is to be called by name, I don't think the name has any bearing on the validity of the blessing. The blessing would be just as valid if no name was stated at all.
I'm confused. When I first read what you wrote, I took it to mean that AFTER baptism you'd have to chose to change genders (again) in order to progress. On re-read... Am I understanding correctly that your mission president says you cannot be baptized? And even further... FIRST presidency is saying you cannot be baptized? Purely do to being trans? Because that would be news, big news, if trans people were not allowed to be baptized into the church. Q
First, EVERYONE is welcome at church... not just members or investigators! :)
The bishop is probably just 'advising' you about the process. It's actually not up to him, but the local mission. You actually don't have a decision yet... until you meet with a member of the mission presidency.
It's question #4 that would require a member of the mission presidency to conduct a baptismal interview.
Please don't assume that you cannot be baptized, or that there isn't a place for you in the Lord's Church.
Your situation is unique... but based on similar posts, it's becoming more common. Please don't judge the leaders too harshly. They're just trying to do their best in a very gender-oriented environment. I think their intentions to do what's right and to help you feel welcome are there. I'm sure it's disappointing so far, but be patient and have faith.
Please don't assume anything until you meet with someone in the mission presidency. Only they can tell you what the next steps will be. :)
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