I didn't say that we care and are doing the right thing. I said that no one is perfect. Traveler, I'm not sure you are aware, but you come across as very self-righteous... that's just my humble opinion though. You tend to have a strong set of values and morals, but you lose me (and I'm sure some others) by the way you tend to come across so judgmental. You are quite correct. I am very result oriented. I could say I was brough up that way. If something is not working - I tend to believe that a loving and caring person will learn from experience and make better choices and apologize and forgive for wrong choices rather than make excuses for old wrong choices. I do not believe we are doing what ought to be done for children in our society and it breaks my heart. I believe we have become a very enabling society for bad choices - especially concerning children. I as sorry that it sounds cold, hard and judgmental. The Traveler
