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Seriously thank you for your response. I didn't expect to be so warmly welcomed. Thank you for not judging me.

Thank you for the quick reply. And thank you so much for being kind and supportive. I will accept the consequences for what they are. I guess I just needed some support to help me do the right thing. Some of my family has disowned me for joining the church so it can be hard sometimes without support.

This is going to be a really long post but please read if you can. Around June of last year(2016) I started working on my mission papers. It was a long process because I had quite a lot of sex about a year prior(last time was around August 2015). I planned it that way with my bishop and stake pres. So I could submit my papers right after a year had passed. Well after we submitted them the mission department asked for a test to show I didn't have any STD's(I didn't). It took me a little to be able to get the test done so we set the test results in mid October. Well on Oct. 30 I got called in from my stake president and bishop. They informed me that the mission department would like me to wait until March 1st(2017) to resubmit my papers(no explanation why, but that's what it said). So that night I was extremely sad. I went to a friends house(girl) and vented/talked about it well as we talked my sadness turned to anger and I was really upset and just a jumble of emotions. Well she made a move on me and we started kissing. [inappropriate things happened... edited out] and I guess that made me snap to. I immediately got up and put my shirt on and went home. I didn't feel bad about it at the time cause I was still upset. Well the next few weeks I read whole lot of anti Mormon stuff and decided I wasn't going to serve a mission and leave the church. But around late December I had some really good talks with some friends and some other things I can't write because it would be so long. Anyways I had a total change of heart. I wanted to serve a mission more than ever and still do. Except there's a problem, I totally forgot about what happened the night I heard I had to wait to resubmit my papers. I only remembered just last night because I read about having unresolved sins before a mission do hat popped into my mind. I reached out to my bishop this morning but he hasn't gotten back to me. I'm worried about telling him because I feel like he'll think I'm lying about not remembering it. I'm worried that I'll have to wait another year before I can serve. I'm also worried about how sad I'll make him. We worked together so hard a few years ago to get me on the strait and narrow, and I let I'm and everyone down. I repented last night but I don't feel any better. Is it too late? Did I wait too long to repent? I just can't get this terrible feeling to go away. I'm 19 and I converted almost 3 years ago so I still love known every everything.I guess I'm just coming here for help. My family is very anti Mormon and they would probably just laugh at me. I just need some help please