No secret, I don't think, just perhaps a short engagement. We met at church. The first time I saw him, he was coming to church for the first time, and I said to a friend, that he's the one for me. Our first date though wasn't until 10 months after he joined the church. It was a church dance. 3 weeks later we were engaged. 2 and 1/2 months later we married. :) Plus, I suppose that the number of times we have had serious rows can be counted on one hand. And then we never went to sleep without apologising to each other regardless of who was right or wrong.