FairChild

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  1. Perhaps this might be a good time to celebrate his wife's life and allow him to move on. I lost a dear friend to cancer on Easter and talked with an oncology nurse that lost her mom Chirstmas day and she said she was sad for several Christmases until she realized what a wonderful time for a Christian to die, on the Birthday of Christ, the one who came so that we could all live once again. After that, Christmas became a time of doubled joy. Christ's birth as well as her mom getting to meet him on his birthday.

    Perhaps some counceling to find out why he is not moving may be in order. His wife would not want him morning this long if she loved him, so him staying "stuck" is not a good thing.

    Also to gain a perfected body, we have to lose the old imperfected body through the process of death.

    Could also be he wants to stay "stick" so he can't marry you. Have you thought of that?

    Maybe it is time you start living your life without him so that he would realize it is you in his life that he wants.

  2. Perhaps this may help stop abuse for this little boy. He had to learn this behavior somewhere. I know it was an awful thing that happened to your child, but it sounds as if there are several people that are in a great deal of pain, yourself included. Please remember to take care of yourself as well. Is it possible that both children could have their name sent to the Temple prayer roll?

  3. It isn't you. It's her. Let her own her own problems, they aren't yours. Find someone that is able to give you what you need and some of your wants. Be happy. She may be a very lovely person, but you need to take care of your own heart. I think it is time to move on, find someone new, quit wasting your time. Best of luck. FC

  4. Tell your uncle about having hands laid on your head and what a blessing can do. Ask him if he would like one and if he does, then arrange for him to have one. Give him the choice after he has informed knowledge. My nephew died almost 2 months ago and my mother died less than 2 weeks ago. Hospice was in both homes. They were a huge help and comfort. I wish you and your family much comfort and peace at this difficult time. FC