Napkins on a YW's Shoulder--need reference

[pam]

It worked out great for us. As the dances were stake dances and held monthly, the youth had the month to get a dance card if they didn't have one. It was good for one year. Even guests the youth might bring were required to have one. Each of the Bishops in the stake had a night designated for their individual wards (I believe ours was the Thursday before the dance) for those needing this card.

But again, they ALL knew exactly the rules when going to the dance..so there was no excuse for ignorance.

[Generally_Me]

We didn't/don't have dance cards either. Actually our dances were a big missionary event; we spread the word and lots of nonmembers would show up.