notamolly247 Posted July 6, 2012 Report Posted July 6, 2012 How much detail do I have to divulge to my Bishop, since I have broken the Law of Chasity? Is it enough to say you broke it? I have been struggling with my faith for a while now,and then in a moment of weakness went too far with a non-member friend. I've taken it to the Lord in prayer, and now I am getting ready to schedule my appointment with my Bishop. Quote
Dravin Posted July 6, 2012 Report Posted July 6, 2012 (edited) If the Bishop feels he needs a better understanding of just what you did chances are he'll prompt you. Things like what (petting versus coitus), how often, and if it's ongoing should get you started. if after your appointment you realize there is something you still wanted to talk to him about there is nothing wrong with scheduling another appointment. Also realize the purpose of going to the Bishop is so he can help you with repentance. Edited July 6, 2012 by Dravin Quote
BrendaM Posted July 6, 2012 Report Posted July 6, 2012 First, I'd like to say I'm glad you went to the Lord in prayer! I hope that you used some form of birth control; if not, please speak with your doctor as soon as possible. I think it is enough to say you broke the Law of Chasity. Your Bishop may ask you certain questions, or the Spirit may prompt him to have an understanding of how far you actually went. Please know that Heavenly Father loves you; and that His Son atoned for moments such as these. The path to rightousness is difficult, but not impossible. Be strong! Keep yourself from situations that are harmful to you, no matter how much you think you can resist. Quote
Vort Posted July 6, 2012 Report Posted July 6, 2012 How much detail do I have to divulge to my Bishop, since I have broken the Law of Chasity? Is it enough to say you broke it? I have been struggling with my faith for a while now,and then in a moment of weakness went too far with a non-member friend. I've taken it to the Lord in prayer, and now I am getting ready to schedule my appointment with my Bishop.You need to tell the bishop and let him guide the conversation. Answer all his questions honestly. Quote
Bini Posted July 6, 2012 Report Posted July 6, 2012 This was a big concern for me as I've been inactive myself. Previous posters are right. Let the bishop guide the conversation and answer his questions honestly. It will be uncomfortable but the burden does lighten as you proceed with the repentance process. Best of luck and good for you. Quote
notamolly247 Posted July 6, 2012 Author Report Posted July 6, 2012 (edited) Thanks for your thoughts. I have done somethings under the Law of Chasity,but not all. But I broke it nonetheless,and I need to have a clear conscience. This is gonna be so ackward. I recently met a man, who is a member, and got to thinking about eternity. I want an eternal marriage,and I want my children sealed to me and my future spouse. He makes me want to be a better person. I have been on the fence about my membership for some time now,and this time I am trying to make a commitment to God. In the past that hasn't been the case,I have been partially in,but not ALL in. I'm a convert,and I have spent the more time inactive than active since my baptism 8 years ago . I was Penecostal before and have been torn between being LDS and going back to a Pentecostal church. Edited July 6, 2012 by notamolly247 needed to make a correction Quote
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